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diary: naughty digital bits and the tease

It's sad, really. When I want to find interesting web sites about my other hobbies or my career, finding excellent web sites that are completely new to me is easy as pie. There is, as a matter of fact, far more excellent material out there than I will ever have time to find, link to, or read.

Not so much, really, in the sex world. This is particularly true if you're looking for content rather than the largest quantities of nasty hardcore video. It's a very incestuous world, really, with the same 100 or so sites all linking to one another and comprising likely a good 80% of all the good quality sex-related content online.

Or so it would seem. Okay, rant over.

The good news is that I have found a few new sites that look yummy to me:

Phone Slut Sex Diary
A really fascinating online journal kept by a worker in the phone sex industry. Of particular interest was her Johns list, where she lists all the different types of callers she gets. And okay, I have to confess I have always been fascinated by sex work. I'd love to be brave enough to give it a try, even just once to say I did it. Y'know?

Orgasm Denial
Okay, mainly focuses on denying men but still very interesting. And really, it's still all about the tease and the power and the anticipation. Big site, too.

Rob and Jill
I almost never review pay sites, because they rarely ever show enough on the front end for me to decide if the site is actually worthwhile in behind the pay door. But this personal, amateur site has a lovely 1 minute video for free on its home page of the husband being teased mercilessly yet trying to hold back his orgasm until he's given permission to do so. He sounds like he's in utter torment, and every time his cock jerked I have to admit my clit contracted in sympathy. And arousal.

One of the best tease & denial books of all time

Even though I've never outright played the “dom” I have done my share of highly enjoyable teasing. My story the lovers: part two talks about this a little bit. I just never found a man, I suppose, who would put up with being teased for hours, kept at the edge of orgasm, without letting go and spoiling all the fun.

I've also carried around a fantasy for ages and ages about being teased and denied. Well, let's face it—not outright denied for days on end. Just for an hour or two or three, maybe. Teased and denied like my favourite books of all time - the Lidir series by Aran Ashe (see book one of the series, right). Worked up with nowhere to go. At the edge for seemingly forever, though you know it's only minutes or hours. Nothing to do but hope that the next slow wet working is the one that ends in orgasm.

Now that I've thoroughly aroused myself, it's off to bed. Thank goodness I bought new batteries today!

2003.03.09 01:52 AM
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I read this above ..... "Even though I've never outright played the “dom” I have done my share of highly enjoyable teasing. My story the lovers: part two talks about this a little bit. I just never found a man, I suppose, who would put up with being teased for hours, kept at the edge of orgasm, without letting go and spoiling all the fun.
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I'd go for weeks without cumming if you wanted ... I wouldn't spoil any of the fun !!

— posted by: Mike on December 28, 2005 9:11 PM