[grin] Why do I think that that train set is on your Christmas wish list?

Hi there Vikki, I'm a long time reader and only a recent poster, but here's my question. A woman recently told me that a the only kind of woman who enjoys selfless, 'degrading' sexual acts (i.e. blowjobs, agressive sex) had issues in her life, like abuse or abondonment. I just met a really amazing lady who perhaps enjoys sex more than I do! But now I wonder. Could she be someone, perhaps 'damaged,' and I'm taking advantage of her? I've never broached the topic with her yet, and I guess I want to know if 'normal' (I know, I know, it's not the word to use in sexuality) women find oral sex enjoyable on their own accord without having so-called 'issues?'

I hope I didn't open a can of worms here, but I really care about my woman.

Happy Holidays

I hope you're bound to get what you want.
Peace on Earth and Goodwill to all.