musings

losing my virginity, part 2
A while back I posted losing my virginity, part 1. A reader recently reminded me I never did post part 2, which is equally funny in its own way. So here goes. A few months after the first attempt, I was re-dating a boyfriend I’d been very close to in... »
2004.01.11

losing my virginity, part 1
I promised a while back that I would tell the story of how I lost my virginity. People just love telling these stories anyway, but I've always found my initiation into intercourse to be particularly amusing. To me, at least, and hopefully for some of you as well. »
2003.06.20

vikki's personal sex trivia
I have to admit, I was curious to see what my own personal sex trivia would look like, all spelled out in little blurbs and bits, stats and interesting factoids. And I've found I enjoy reading over it, almost as much as I'd enjoy reading someone else's. It helps me to take everything just a little less seriously. »
2003.04.22

at first glance lust
Oh, I do love falling in lust. You talk to him, hear his voice, imagine the things you could do to each other and everything below the waist just clenches. Fantasies are born. Your heart pounds when they're around. Sometimes you think you could come from just a single touch, a single lick, a single word. »
2002.02.21

deep fried ice cream
I'm going to tell you about a purse I bought and the storm it stirred; a small beige teddy bear that knows secrets that nobody else knows; a conversation I had about cuffs and chains and vulnerability; how hard I fought against something I wanted; a song that I used to have no reason to love. »
2001.10.31

voyage of discovery
I've been a tease my entire life. I can't even seem to help myself. When I'm with a lover, it just seems to flow naturally and instinctively from me. Discovering what turns my lover on is as exciting a voyage as I've ever experienced. »
2001.06.27

first kisses
Ingrid Bergman once said, “A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous”. There's some truth to that. There are many times in my life when a kiss said more than words could ever say. »
2001.05.19

monologues
It's hilarious. Moving. Touching. Discomforting. There were times I laughed so hard my sides hurt, and other times the stories moved me to tears. Some of the sad facts peppered throughout the monologues left the entire audience still, in silent acceptance that the world we live in is not always a sex-positive and friendly place to be. »
2000.08.21

the clitoris
I ran across this passage in a women's erotica book I purchased recently: “Sacred and magical little organ! Praise be to it, she thought. Temples should be built in its honour, ceremonies inaugurated. There was no other part of the human body fashioned exclusively for enjoyment. Only the vibrant clitoris, instantly responsive to stimulation.” »
2000.04.17

what you don't know about me
You know that I dream of sliding your cock between my lips. Giving pleasure to my lover is something that transcends arousal, for me - it's everything. There is nothing more erotic, more satisfying, more unbelievable than giving untold pleasure to your partner and watch the pleasure ride them until everything breaks loose and they jump and shudder and moan. »
2000.01.25

being a tease
I'm not a tease, per se, but I do love teasing. A “tease” is someone who promises one thing but doesn't deliver. Teasing, to me, just means building anticipation until its reaches a peak, then delivering on your promises. I think it's a highly underrated sexual technique; it's really an excellent method that travels well - meaning that if you're in public, it's still something you can do well with a big effect on your partner. »
1999.12.02

the mystery of male arousal
I've often wondered how long a man, truly, can be aroused. As a woman, I know the time is long - I can be aroused for hours and hours, like a slow simmering pot. There doesn't even have to be an orgasm near the end - so long as the arousal doesn't reach that state of “critical mass”, it's not a requirement to have an orgasm. Arousal, in and of itself, is a pleasurable state. »
1999.11.27