Ross writes: Hi I have been going out with my girlfriend now for 16 months now and i just want tips on how to give her better orgasm’s Ross, honey, you’re asking the wrong lady. Why do people always look outside the relationship for suggestions like these? Look, everybody (well, okay, almost everybody) masturbates. I’m going to play the odds here and assume your girfriend does...
You know, I swore this year I wouldn’t bugger around with trying to find holiday items to link to; I did enough of that last year. But I just ran across this blog tonight, featuring links and sexy Christmas photos, and had to share: Also, Eden has added a Holiday category to both her R-rated and explicit photo galleries, including two in the R-rated of Carmen Electra that were just...
There are so few good movies out there that explore power exchange. BDSM porn is useless to me, in most cases, since it’s incredibly contrived and the actors so rarely enjoy their roles or the activities they’re performing. What’s more, the eroticism just isn’t there in most cases. And for me, BDSM is about eroticism. Power exchange isn’t matter of fact: it’s...
This sure is a strange and digital world we all live in. I had a number of lovers before my first husband, but that was back in the BC days (before computers – at least, for me), so for the most part I’ve never seen nor heard from them ever again. Not so with the new digital age. By the time I left my husband, I had started on the fledgling site that would become Herdesires. I...
No, silly, not what you think. However, I have recently been found fantasizing about walls. Er. Let me explain. Walls are just hot. Push me up against them and I switch into subbie, wet, horny mode almost immediately. Shove your cock against me, and it’s even better. It’s dramatic without the over-violence, it’s cliched but still damned hot, and it also gives support for rubbery...
Whether you’re just nudging around the edges of kinky play or delving deeply into a BDSM-centered relationship, limits are something you have to think about, and discuss. What your personal limits are. What their personal limits are. And so on. But there’s another limit that I hadn’t really touched on until recently in my own play. And that’s the limit of misbehaving...
1. Mentholated shaving cream is very, very tingly on your nether bits. 2. If your partner is shaving you, it requires a level of intensity, concentration and observation that is absolutely surreal. They will know you better than you know yourself down there when it’s all over. 3. Shaving “with the grain” reduces red bumps. Who knew. 4. When you get wet, you now get wet. All over...
You know, I’ve been keeping a sex blog for – what – 4 years now? And it never ceases to amaze me the number of come-ons I get in my inbox every week. That’s not bragging, folks, just for the record; it truly is flabbergasted disbelief. I’ve been approached (via email) by couples, single men, married men, transvestites, subbie boys, dominant men, even a couple of...
Was running through my blogroll today, catching up on what everyone has to say. And spanking, it would seem, is the theme du jour. Or is it just that I read a lot of sites about this? At Spanking Blog, Bethie talks about her birthday spanking (leaving me unbearably jealous – do you all realize I’ve never had an actual *birthday* spanking?) and the discovery of the wonderful sensuality...
You know, I never really considered myself an exhibitionist. Despite my deep wet sexual ungh for public places, it was never really the being seen itself that was the turn on – just the danger that you could be caught. I think. Er. That is to say, I’m not sure. There’s also the fantasy I had a while back, about a guy and his friend. Is that exhibitionism? Probably. Just not how...