I also keep forgetting to blogroll Ken over at Suburban Sex Blog, shame on me, spankings owed. 🙂
His site just makes me laugh. I realize that’s not why he’s writing it, but oh, how I wish I could have found that forceful, pissed off voice during the dark years with the Ex (i.e. He Who Has No Sex Drive). It sounds so healthy. Well, healthier, anyway, than my own experience, my own voice. Mine was more of a quiet desperation, a very lonely voice, with a good pinch of “sticking my head in the sand”. While I did eventually find that angry voice, by then it was too late, I was too bitter, and the marriage was doomed.
I should introduce my ex to his wife. They’d make great friends. 😉