The reality of the matter is his expectations are clear on what he thinks will happen. And while can’t say I wouldn’t want to have sex with him, I like to think that it is my choice, and that when a guy takes me out, he is going to try to impress me and woo me a bit. If I suspect a man, who I have not been in a relationship with, assumes that I’m going to have sex with him, I am turned off and insulted. (Which may not be reasonable, but that’s how I feel.)
Yes. I agree. Perhaps that makes me unreasonable, too. 🙂
I’m not against the casual fuck, really I’m not (though it’s not for me, not right now anyway), but unless I’ve stated in clear terms that I plan on doing so, it would be so nice to be talked to, kissed a little maybe, without any expectations that I’m going to trip them and beat them to the floor.
In other news, I finally finished the About page – if you’re not already deathly sick of Vikki already, you can learn more there. And a big thank-you to everyone who wrote in and gave me some ideas for the page. I hope I’ve answered most of your questions.
And finally, a note about Halloween. I did it. Yes, I actually splurged at Northbound and picked up a leather corset, leather cap, silver slave collar (ok, that one was just for me – grin) and yummy leather riding crop. Too much fun. More on that later.
For now, I’m off to play with some toys. Cheers.