the problem with a sex blog


It is a squeaky and absurdly early hour of the morning, and I found myself sitting here and thinking: what better thing to do than write a post?

The problem with a sex-only blog, you see, is that when you hit a period in your life when you don’t have a lot to say about it or are too damned tired to think about it, the blog suffers. Personal and family obligations have kept me from being able to think much about what new sexy things you all might enjoy reading. I hope the rest of the sexblog community has been keeping up their end so that you’ve had something to read while I’ve been away!

Since I cannot for the life of me think of something titillating to share, I thought I’d haul out ye olde mailbag and see what I can share with you from this month’s email:

Sandy writes:

I like your site, but I have a feeling that the clit you talk so
lovingly about is in fact six inches long, more or less, with a couple of dangly bits beneath it. Am I right???

I’ll pass on the obvious conclusion that Sandy must be a boy and is therefore projecting on to me. 🙂 I have to admit this email shocked me – I mean, really, people, after the last several Vagina posts, is there any doubt I’m a girl? But I found it amusing nonetheless.

Clueless In Perth writes:

If you choose to reply, (none expected), is it about the finding
(somebody), or is it about the search?

Interesting question, CIP. I guess, for me, it all depends on what stage I’m at. There are times when I’m not looking for anything serious at all, in which case the search is far more fun – kind of like wandering up and down the aisles of a smorgasbord, trying to choose the morsel that would be tastiest. Other times I’m hoping for a little snuggle and companionship with my sexual depravity, and those times it’s more about the finding.

Ellen writes:

did u ever hear of a person who when they climax gets a pain from the pelvic area right to their hip. it last about 3 seconds and its not a pain like a cramp, its more like when the dentist hits a nerve ending and it travels. this has been happening to me and i was curious what it could be, as i said it last the most 3 seconds.

Well, Ellen, I haven’t heard of that particular one, no. But I can tell you that a few years ago, I had several months there when right at the point of climax a nerve in my head would tighten to a point of excruciating pain. At times I thought I was having a stroke, and I’d have a headache for several hours afterwards. I did check with my doctor at one point who wasn’t able to help me, and told me to just avoid sexual activity for a few weeks. I did so, and slowly the pains faded away, a little less with each orgasm. I don’t know if your problem is the same (please check with your doctor!) but if it is, hopefully it’s a short-term annoyance.

Well, I think that’s enough from the mailbag to suffice for now. This week, (and I promise this) I will write the story of my one and only time kissing/fondling another woman. 😉

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  • Mmmmm, that promise of yours sounds delicious. Enjoyment of Females, indeed.
    Of course, even tastier would be a slyly-hatched plot to make it no longer the one and only time… But I am getting a bit ahead of myself here, am I not? 😉

  • yay! so exciting to see you back. very very very odd that someone thought you were a man though. i have to say, that thought never once crossed my mind. ever. it seems odd to me that someone did think you were.
    anyway, welcome back. *grin*

  • I actually had an orgasm pain similar to that woman’s, although I thought it felt more like a cramp in my pubis/clitoris. It was a deep pain for several seconds versus a sharp “hit-my funnybone” zing nerve pain. After a while it stopped happening but I do get it again once in a while when I masturbate during my period. As long as it isn’t every single time, I guess I can live with it! My gyno had no idea what it was and referred me to a specialist but I didn’t want to pay for another exam and it went away so I never went.

  • i have had that blinding and unbearable headache once, and once only, also at point of orgasm! it was some years ago, but i still remember the pain!

  • I mean this sincerely and nicely, but I was just curious, have you ever tried anal sex and, if so, would you consider writing about it? Thanks!

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