Trivia is one way of presenting information about a topic. Let’s face it, trivia doesn’t always touch on the more meaningful aspects of life or culture, but there is something interesting about bite-sized information. It gives us a snapshot, rather than a full video, but it’s fun to read. The details are sometimes best left to the imagination anyway. 🙂
I have to admit, I was curious to see what my own personal sex trivia would look like, all spelled out in little blurbs and bits, stats and interesting factoids. And I’ve found I enjoy reading over it, almost as much as I’d enjoy reading someone else’s. It helps me to take everything just a little less seriously.
Without further ado, then, my personal sex trivia (in no particular order):
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 20 (that’s a funny story, remind me to tell it some time)
Age I actually lost my virginity: 21
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 3
# of women I’ve kissed: 1
Favourite sex music: Morcheeba
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: Baroque harpischord solos
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: The Matrix soundtrack, Chocolat soundtrack, Korn’s Slept So Long, any kind of reggae
Favourite sexual act: Blowjob. Bar none. Yummmm.
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: Hands. Fingers. Palms. Nothing sexier than a talented pair of hands.
Favourite kind of porn: Anything with a bit of kink – gay porn, (real) lesbian porn, BDSM-flavored porn
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 7
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: A trading floor, a video store
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: Being strapped naked to a crucifix and put on “trial” for witchcraft
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: Hiring a male hooker
Favourite lube: Eros
Biggest turn-on: Being teased
Sexiest books in my library: Erotique, Guide to Getting it On, Screw the Roses and Send me the Thorns, Aran Ashe’s Lidir series
That’s all I can come up with for now, but I’m sure I’ll add more as I go along. What’s your sexual trivia? Share it below!
Vikki, I love your site!
I am 33 years old. Here are my answers. I hope some others post theirs as well.
Age of first sexual encounter: 14 (oral sex)
Age I actually lost my virginity: 15
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 2
# of women I’ve kissed: 0
Favourite sex music: Morcheeba! Absolutely! Thanks for introducing me to Morcheeba, Vikki!
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: My Dad & his folk group singing folk music in the livingroom while I was in my bedroom on the same floor.
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Beethoven
Favourite sexual act: Rear-entry intercourse with clitoral stimulation (for simultaneous multiple orgasms)
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: Shoulders & chest. I love the juxtaposition between the hard smoothness of the skin on a well-muscled shoulder & the courseness of chest hair.
Favourite kind of porn: Not into video or pics. Love well-written erotic literature.
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 1 and it’s broken. Hope to remedy this situation at a Fantasia party on the weekend.
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: in a park with kids playing soccer nearby.
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised.
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: Performing oral sex in a room with another couple present.
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: Walking up to a gorgeous stranger, say on the street or the subway, & starting a sexual encounter.
Favourite lube: natural lubrication during ‘raging hormone week’ (middle of the month).
Biggest turn-ons: Passionate eyes, deep sultry voices, double entendres, being touched very lightly.
Sexiest books in my library: Hard Core, The Sex Guide
Cat, I love your answers! And I must agree with your “Biggest turns ons”. These work for me too – especially being touched very lightly!
Anyone else?
Sophie, thanks for playing! I agree 100%about the teasing and Metallica. AC/DC’s Back in Black album is also great for this.
I agree–amazing site, and I applaud your openess and willingness to enjoy life to its fullest!
Presently 27 yrs old
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 16
Age I actually lost my virginity: 18
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 3
# of women I’ve kissed: 6
Favourite sex music: early Prince or Alive
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: Gosh I’m not even sure about this one…I guess possibly it was Charlie Pride -long story.
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Metalicca (sp?) dunno why, just whenever I hear Enter Sandman I get the urge – but have yet to try this.
Favourite sexual act: does teasing count? I like to tease until they cant stand it any longer!
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: Hands. Fingers. Palms. Nothing sexier than a talented pair of hands. I agree PLUS the hip of a man – the smooth round part of it.
Favourite kind of porn: Anything with a bit of kink – gay porn, (real) lesbian porn, BDSM-flavored porn (what can I say I share ALOT of similiar tastes with you) but I also agree with Cat – erotica literature is sexy too.
Number of sex toys that vibrate: too many.. possibly 14 or so
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: Dr’s office. Work desk. Airplane show.
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: group sex
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: being videotaped live or on stage for anonymous people.
Favourite lube: Wet
Biggest turn-on: Being teased
Sexiest books in my library: Skin Deep, Stories to Make Her Blush, Wet Erotica
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 16
Age I actually lost my virginity: 16 (and not the smartest move I made. The guy was an idiot. But I realized it too late.)
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 2
# of women I’ve kissed: 0
Favourite sex music: Clannad, Faithless
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: I forgot
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Metallica
Favourite sexual act: Foreplay (sratching my nails lightly
LakotaMoon, your answers were great! And I can’t believe you listed E. Holly’s books as favourites. I would add her Black Lace novel, The Top Of Her Game, to that list. 🙂 It’s a great one, too, even better than Menage (in my opinion). 🙂
i’ve been with bauhausAlive women who were able to have borderline orgasms sitting on a coffee-stained futon wearing tight jeans…listening to me read kerouac’s description of “spontaneous prose” in a halfWhisper. sometimes, the consummation is lacklustre.
p.s. christ on a buttered platter, vikki…your tits are exquisite…like amish dumplings.
The Top of Her Game – I knew I forgot something! Vikki, you’re right! ;-)) E. Holly is one of a kind!
OK, my turn! 🙂
Current age: 33 (34 in August)
Age of first sexual encounter: 14 – Some guy from Toledo (can’t remember his name!) “encouraged” me to give him a handjob in the parking lot of Kings Island after closing. We were standing by the car making out before never seeing each other again and he took my hand and put it on his cock (which was conveniently sticking out of the leg of his shorts). I rubbed until he came on my hand. I never actually saw his cock, but still to this day remember the soft, slightly ribbed texture of it….
Age I actually lost my virginity: 15 – to my second boyfriend. an idiot.
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 4 – and all new about each other & knew that I was sleeping with all of them (separately)
# of women I’ve kissed: 2 (girls are cuddly!)
Favourite sex music: Mahavishnu Orchestra “Birds of Fire” or any Janis Joplin
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: Ravi Shankar
Favourite sexual act: Oral sex, both giving and receiving, males or females.
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: That’s a toss-up. I love my husband’s oh-so-nimble tongue, but I’m definitely turned on by a “Captain Kirk chest”.
Favourite kind of porn: “real couples” or amateurs
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 7, maybe 8
Number of sex toys that I’ve worn out: 3
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: behind the bandstand at a park late one night….
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: either is fine with me. Husband is au naturel, but other lovers are circumcised. Both kinds are exquisitely delightful. 😉
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: foursome
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: can’t think of one – most of my fantasies have come true!
Favourite lube: Liquid Silk has recently replaced Astroglid – because LS has no glycerin
Biggest turn-on: being lightly touched all over my body
Sexiest books in my library: I have no sexy books in my library (yet) 🙁
Ok i saw this & i know its a fairly old post, but i wanted to share, i guess 😉
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 16
Age I actually lost my virginity: 16
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 7 *blushes* & no, they didnt know about eachother
# of women I’ve kissed: 5
Favourite sex music: Prince or anything R& B tinged. (also Orgy’s Blue Monday;))
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: My ex boyfriend had Rage Against the machine on during sex & the CD kept skipping, screaming ” A bullet in you r heaaaaaaaaad!”
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Hot steamy Blues or sexy jazz tunes
Favourite sexual act: Blowjob Or anything i can get away with in public
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: neck & ears, lips & eyes. i love kissing necks & sucking ears, & full lips & fiery eyes kill me everytime.
Favourite kind of porn: any porn without horrendous acting. the kind that gets to it & varies positions without looking too staged
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 1 🙁
Outrageous public places I’ve done it:In an abandoned building at night on the balcony above an outdoor restaurant with a jazz band playing live.
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: my ex wanting me to asphyxiate(sp) him while on top
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: 3some
Favourite lube: Ky warming liquid
Biggest turn-on: Being teased, being whispered really hot descriptions of whats to come ( literally)
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 13
Age I actually lost my virginity: 16
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 2
# of women I’ve kissed: 0
Favourite sex music: sade
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: national anthem
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: pearl harbor soundtrack
Favourite sexual act: definetely getting a rug munch
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: arms and love handles
Favourite kind of porn: with just the sex, no ridiculus setup
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 0 🙁
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: back of a running 4 wheeler, movies, a slide in a play ground, on top a car (not ours)
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: circumcised but i wouldn’t an au naturel out of my bed
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: a guy wanting to stick his toe in my crotch
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: 3 some
Favourite lube: what nature provided
Biggest turn-on: lightly kissing
Sexiest books in my library:
Okay, know it’s old but hopefully I am allowed to post…
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 15
Age I actually lost my virginity: 16 (she was older, I was fast.)
# of women I’ve dated at the same time: 2
# of guysI’ve kissed: 0
Favourite sex music: U2, Joshua Tree
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: Smurf’s Sing-a-long
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Thrash Metal
Favourite sexual act: Definitely (and not joking here) going down…
Favourite non-genital part of a woman’s anatomy: That dimple in her arm between bicep and tricep. Collar bone.
Favourite kind of porn: Blowjobs, blowjobs, blowjobs. Anything where she’s clearly over the edge.
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 0
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: Bathroom in a bar after hours. Kiddie swing at local park. Neighbours from lawn.
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumsized is what ya want.
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: Cock, balls…swallowed. Anus being licked same time. Wheeeeee!
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: Bondage. Receiving and giving, although mainly receiving.
Favourite lube: None
Biggest turn-on: The written word, fantasies. Blowjobs. Talented tongues. Squirters.
Sexiest books in my library: have a few, none are that sexy I am afraid….
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 14
Age I actually lost my virginity: two months later at 15
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 2
# of women I’ve kissed: 0
Favorite sex music: Not sure why but I love hearing Josh Groban’s voice. Romantic, powerful, strong and at times urgent
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: Well, it’s not really music but this one, at band camp… wait! I mean, one time my husband was going down on me and my 80lb lab chose that moment to go into the bathroom and slurp lustily from the toilet! We both just lost it and damn near died from laughing
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Any music that reaches some part of you that isn’t exposed every day. That could be any music at any given time. Could be a thunderstorm (which I LOVE to have torrid sex during!)
Favorite sexual act: Don’t even have to think about it. I love giving a blow job. I love having the power of knowing a man has to totally surrender and watching the toture in his eyes when I drag it on for hours (Longest I’ve given is 4 hrs)
Favorite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: Neck and back are good but I love that little line of hair from the navel leading downward. But there is also that little space between a mans balls and his anus that is especially tender and a teasing fingernail drug through that area is a sure pleaser.
Favorite kind of porn: I love anything erotic
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 2, but rarely use them.
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: My parents driveway standing in front of a car when I was in highschool. But I love to give roadies
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: not sure about this one, will have to think about it
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: Asking a woman to join my husband and I
Favorite lube: Any warming lube
Biggest turn-on: Allowing myself to let go during sexual experiences and just seeing where they lead. Letting all the blocks my mind has in place (from my fucked up ex-husband) down
Sexiest books in my library: Too many to list but the one that sticks out the most was when, as a 17 yr old, I read Jude Devereaux’s “The Velvet Promise”.
Hello Vikki,
We are a french couple-as you can understand from our special english! , 30agers, in love since we were not even 20, and we found again one or two years ago LUST FOR LIFE. Your site is great, by the way, it makes him understand better a woman’s mind and helps her to let go herdesires and fantasies…
So, here is our trivia:
Age she tried to lose his virginity:17
Age she actually lost his virginity:17 (+5′!)
Age he tried to lose his virginity:15
Age he actually lost his virginity:17 (with her, isn’t it great?)
# of guys she has dated at the same time:1
# of women she has kissed:3
# of girls he has dated at the same time:1
# of guys he has dated at the same time:2
# of men he has kissed:3
Favourite sex music: Reggae, JJ Cale, The Cure, Mozart, we gonna try this Morcheeba, it sounds like it is a sexual hit!
Strangest music we have ever listened to during sex:
He: “Gymnopedie” played as loud as possible by the girl’s mother on an electric organ to cover her daughter’s shoutings from the neighbours.
She: “Mercury Rev”. Awful.
Music we always wanted to have sex to: “Carmina Burana” -how comes we still have not done it?!
Her Favourite sexual act: Blowjob, and also him on the top, me on my back but thighs closed, every move he makes rubs your clit like heaven. Try it girls if you never did before! The bad point is it does not allow the deepest penetration and the hardest pounding.
His Favourite sexual act: Cunilingus, rubbing slowly my helmet all along her wet slot I don’t know why but I just LOVE doing this, HER COMMENT:sometimes he gets me to the orgasm touching me that way I HATE it too much expectations but I have my reward when he fucks me like hell just as I recovered from my first orgasm Come on this is my part, write in yours, Ok so CAPITAL LETTERS ARE HER COMMENTS BE AWARE, doggy style, ass licking, anal plays, sodomy LADIES, TELL ME DO YOUR GUYS HAVE THIS SAME ASS FIXATION? Na, come on she is too modest she has the HOTTEST ASS ever, and she really knows how to move it.
Her Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: the chest especially if muscles are finely designed and the skin lightly tanned, EXACTLY ME!!!, the ears HIS COMMENT: TOO BAD FOR HER, I JUST CAN’T STAND WHEN ONE TOUCHES MY EARS! Her comment on his comment: Wake up boy, the world is full of people with ears you know? , the belly.
His Favourite non-genital part of a woman’s anatomy: the neck, the shoulders, the back, the small of the back, the toes, behind the knees,…HEY WHAT ABOUT THE PROPER ASS? YOU KNOW IT IS NOT GENITAL? No really, the ass is NOT genital?
Favourite kind of porn: She doesn’t like porn, she is more in erotic stuffs. He likes amateur soft lesbian and their own home made movies.
Number of sex toys that vibrate: none, but that will not last. He plans to offer her one, he is just looking for it, so PLEASE if you know WHERE I can find a RADIO REMOTE CONTROLed one…
Outrageous public places we have done it: She once gave him a blow job on a step in the street, he once ate her on a bench in a park, we also did it in the yard of the school at the beginning of our story.
She Prefers circumcised or au naturel: she can’t compare so she will say au naturel.
Kinkiest thing she has experienced: she was with one boy she liked much, and he introduced her to his so attractive brother, and as they were in a cafe, she went to the bathroom, the brother joined her and they did it in there -some people saw them -including the boy she was with at this time, and is again with since then. (Did some one understand this english-like language?)
Kinkiest thing he has experienced: Date a gay couple on the Net and spend the nite with them.
Fantasy she never have the guts to act out: maybe some kind of three some…
Fantasy he never have the guts to act out: Be with her as kinky as he can be in his mind.
Favourite lube: her juice. We use no other one.
Her Biggest turn-on: to wear skirts without underwears, to be licked, to give head.
His Biggest turn-on: blindfolds and being tied, teasing in public.
Sexiest books in ourlibrary: Manara’s “Women”, Serpieri “Druuna XXX”, Pierre Louys “Aphrodite and her sisters”, “Anthology of French Erotic Litteracy”,Djian’s “At the White’s”
Radio remote controlled vibrating thing? Try a pager in a condom… Any time of the day you can thrill your g/f. Especially good when you know they’re going into a meeting…
Current Age: 20
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 15
Age I actually lost my virginity: 15
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 2
# of women I’ve kissed: 3
Favourite sex music: Enya
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: Siguros
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Any kind of fast sexy techno.
Favourite sexual act: Giving a blowjob!
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: His nipples.
Favourite kind of porn: Lesbian porn.
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 4
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: In a cemetery at midnight.
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: Allowing myself to be stripped, blind-folded, tied to a bed and used by a bunch of guys at a college party. It sounds scary but it was a lot of fun. I guess you could call it a rape role-play.
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: Taking a strong sedative and allowing a guy to have his way with my while i was under.
Favourite lube: Warm KY.
Biggest turn-on: Metrosexuals.
Sexiest books in my library: The Sleeping Beauty Series by Anne Rice.
Current age: 23
Age of my first kiss: 15
Age I lost my virginity: 19
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 3
# of women I’ve kissed: something like 5 – and they’re almost all towards the top of my kissing list… women are AWESOME kissers!
Stance on sex music: eh… I’m a sex addict… I’m just happy when getting some and don’t really pay attention to what’s going on around me
Favourite sexual act: Wow… Probably touching and teasing and lightly kissing – anticipation is awesome
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: I love eyes and that part where the leg meets the abdomen… the crease… it’s YUMMY
Favourite kind of porn: Mostly penthouse letters, but I saw an all-girl porn once that was amazing
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 1 – but my finger is my favorite
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: Movie theatre and bookstore
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: don’t know how “kinky” this is, but my fiance and I had sex on the hood of a cop car…
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: having sex with a stranger – it’s too personal for me
Favourite lube: Whatever works
Biggest turn-on: my fiance says everything turns me on… my list of things that don’t turn me on would be smaller… 😀
Sexiest books in my library: Definitely the Sleeping Beauty series by A.R. Roquelaure (Anne Rice’s psudeonym) and I also have some Penthouse Letters collections
Current Age: 20
Age I tried to lose my virginity: 15
Age I actually lost my virginity: 16
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 3
# of women I’ve kissed: 4
Favourite sex music: blues
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex: My boyfriend’s brother playing contemporary Christian worship music on his guitar
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: Chocolat soundtrack (way to go, Vikki)
Favourite sexual act: reeeeeaaaaaallllllllly sloooooow sex, where you can feel every ridge, bump and variation of his cock slide in to you — or hard and fast anal. I know, I’m a woman of contradictions.
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: hip bone, collarbone
Favourite kind of porn: BDSM or anal. Anything by CyberNet Entertainment usually makes me happy
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 4
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: in a handful of public parks, on the grass outside a major performing arts center, on the bank of a boy scout camp lake
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: though I’ve been through a couple of threesomes, a foursome and a lot of sex in front of other people, I think the kinkiest thing I’ve ever done was lying still on a bed, lover hovering over me, eyes closed, trembling as I wondered what was coming next
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: double penetration…then again, I might have the guts
Favourite lube: natural, olive oil or Liquid Silk
Biggest turn-on: hipster boys who speak multiple languages, French accents
Sexiest books in my library: the Kama Sutra…I know, how unoriginal.
Age I tried to lose my virginity n/a
Age I actually lost my virginity: 8
# of guys I’ve dated at the same time: 2
# of women I’ve kissed: too many to count
Favourite sex music: barry white
Strangest music I’ve ever listened to during sex:jamiroquai
Music I’ve always wanted to have sex to: death metal
Favourite sexual act: cunnilingus and analingus
Favourite non-genital part of a man’s anatomy: hair
Favourite kind of porn: hermaphrodites
Number of sex toys that vibrate: 100s
Outrageous public places I’ve done it: midnight mass, hurricane, blizzards, corn field, during high school assembly
Prefer circumcised or au naturel: Circumcised
Kinkiest thing I’ve experienced: done it all
Fantasy I’d never have the guts to act out: submitting myself to multiple women at once
Favourite lube: egg whites
Biggest turn-on: women with a strapon or feminine hermaphrodite
Sexiest books in my library: tantra, kama sutra, encyclopedia of sex