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i swear i’m not making this up

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Sure, sure, you’ve all heard the jokes about statutory rape and incest in a few states – Arkansas and Virginia come to mind – but I always kind of thought they were jokes. Seriously. But, apparently it’s a real problem. Big enough that the Department of Health in Virginia has launched a new ad campaign – including highway billboards – that urge men not to have...

update to “okay, fine, I give up”

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As an update to my rant on the extremists against gay marriage earlier this month… I am so glad I am not the only one who feels the need, at last, to point out the sheer and utter ridiculousness of the extremists who fear that bestiality may, indeed, come along next if we allow gay marriage. Richard Goldstein of The Village Voice (admittedly, a leftie imprint) has a wonderful piece on...

what a mess

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I have been known (from time to time) to be a bit, shall we say, picky when it comes to how clean my place is. Which is not to say it’s ever truly immaculate. I have dog, which means the minute I clean every bit of dog hair out of the house, she stands in the living room and shimmies her little heart out and oops, look, dog hair again. Plus, I have far too many books for my lowly 690 square...

a word about this playground

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You know, the perception is that the Internet is about free speech. And to some extent, that’s absolutely true. Anyone can set up a web site and say anything they like, really. But when it comes to personal play spaces – like this blog – well, the only speech that’s well and truly free here is mine. This is not a democracy. It’s like my living room – my own...

okay, fine, I give up

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You know, I’ve tried really hard to stay out of the whole fracas to do with gay marriage. First, because I try so very hard to not be political on this blog. Second, because everybody and their freaking brother in blogland is talking about it. Who wants to read more about it? (Is it just me, or are the overwhelming majority of bloggers liberals? Maybe it’s just the bloggers I read...

rant

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Please be warned that there’s a lot of vitriol below about men (particularly the just-out-of-the-box Republican kind), government, politics and Texas. A lot of it owes to my three whole hours of sleep last night. If you’re not in the mood to read acid, feel free to skip. 😉 … So, Bacchus linked to a news story about a woman in Texas who sells sex toys at private parties (a la...

why facials bug me

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I’m a very odd duck when it comes to the question of “cum”. I absolutely love for a man to come in my mouth – it’s my ending of preference, actually, as there’s nothing like feeling those pulses between your lips, thighs sweetly trembling, the soft cries of a man in ecstasy above you, and the warm salty taste of his pleasure. God. What was I saying? Ah, yes...

mea culpa

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Just occurred to me this morning (ah… even single, I can have morning-after regrets) that perhaps posting yesterday about my hatred of rubber and my fondness for giving head without protection might not be so politically correct given that yesterday was World AIDS Day. Oh, sure, I’m not the only one out there making such a huge gaffe. But I’m not sure I’m comfortable with...

on erotica – part two

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So as I was saying (yeah, I know – you guys thought I forgot all about it, right? no such luck), I think romance writers create the best erotica. Oh, man, I can feel the eyes rolling from here. First of all, if you’ve never read several romance books (and I mean read them, cover to cover, several different authors and types) then you don’t know Jack, and please hold your...

the feedback loop

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You know, I love it when a comment gets me going enough that it inspires a whole new diary entry. Such as the case in my last post about blowjobs, where Symph asked: I was wondering what your reaction would be if he just lay there, not reacting at all (cock stays stiff). And if you asked him whether he was enjoying it, he said “yes, very nice”. Well, I have to be honest. It’s...

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